There are 2 main statutes that govern relationships, The Family Relations Act (provincial) and the Divorce Act (federal). These statues dictate the laws with regard to marriage, separation and divorce, including common law relationships.
If you are planning to live with someone or get married and you have substantially more assets than they do, you may want to sign a co-habitation/marriage agreement (also known as a pre-nuptial Agreement). This agreement will set out which property will be owned jointly and which should be kept separate. This is especially important for those people who have children from a prior relationship who want to make sure to protect the assets for their children. When properly drafted, this type of agreement can dictate what will happen to each party if the relationship ends or one of you dies.
When a marriage or common law relationship ends there are a number of issues that might need to be resolved. These include: child support, spousal support, child custody and access, splitting of assets and divorce. Although only a judge can grant a divorce, many of the other issues can be negotiated out of court as long as they conform to what the law says is equitable. Lawyers advise clients as to what is considered fair and help them negotiate a settlement of the issues based on their specific situation. This is then written down in a Separation Agreement and allows the couple to avoid costly litigation.
There are three grounds under which someone can apply for divorce:
The most common way to obtain a divorce order is for one of the parties to sue the other for divorce under one of the above grounds, usually #1. In most cases the other party does not even respond to the application.
In Canada we have a "no-fault" system of divorce which means that when deciding how to deal with the issues surrounding divorce (child support, custody, etc.) the court will not take into account the grounds for the divorce. In other words, the rotten things your spouse did are not relevant to obtaining a divorce.
The process is different depending on whether you have a signed separation agreement already or if there are outstanding issues between the parties. However, to begin, please:
There are child support guideline tables that outline how much is appropriate for each parent to pay for their children. It is based primarily on the income of the parties.
For more information about this and other family related issues, please give us a call or email.